Our Philosophy

To flourish. As individuals. In our relationships.


The child is the parent of the adult

In addition to our genetic dispositions, we are born into family constellations that, to a large extent, mold our initial subconscious understandings and feelings about ourselves, our self-worth, our roles, what is good, what is bad, and how we should interact with others.  We bring these defining worldviews and emotional and relational tendencies into our adult lives and relationships.

No one enters into adulthood without unique strengths and traumas, psychological needs, tendencies and blindspots—all of which drive our choices.

Flourishing requires the ability to see and make choices in ways that serve us. 

This is not as easy as it might seem. To make these choices well requires deep self-awareness. 

We need to understand the subconscious mental models and emotional dynamics that all too often cloud our understanding of ourselves and our relationships; that limit our imagination, and that constrain our range of action. 

Our lives are built around our relationships

Since our lives are built around our relationships, we need deep understanding of others and how we relate to them.  The intricate dynamics of two psyches interacting are as complex as they are fascinating.


We design our coaching around this foundational truth:

The honest and profound exploration of oneself and one’s relationships requires curiosity, compassion, and a sense of psychological safety. 

All our coaching interventions are designed accordingly.

“While flourishing will mean something unique to every individual, it is, for all of us, our most profound wish for ourselves and those we love.”